Lady in the street, but a Freak in the bed!

How many of you have been in relationships where the sex gets boring or the guy complains that you aren't as spontaneous as you used to be/ he wants you to be? I have to say that ever since I dated Asshole, I've pretty much been in relationships where, I wouldn't say the sex sucked or wasn't satisfying (cause it DEFINITELY WAS), but it was just kind of the same routine most of the time (there were a few incidences, but not many in the last few years). I mean, sure, I had two guys after him that got me going during sex enough to erupt all over them, but as for the passionate, wild side I have in me....it just went dormant. I know that it's still there, buried deep within me...it's just that these guys...they haven't brought it out in me!

I miss having a guy that turns me on so much, that I just want him then and there and don't care about anything else....I want a guy that can be sophisticated, but then real raunchy like me at times. As Ludacris would say, I want a "Lady in the street, but a Freak in the bed!" I want a guy that knows when to caress me, for example after a nice romp in the sack, and when to shove me up against a wall, passionately kiss me, and then pull my panties down and get busy.

Does anyone else feel this way besides me? Does anyone else think it's sad...that from the outside it looks like my sex drive has gone down, that it's not as crazy and in-your-face as it used to be, when really you know the truth....no one has made that carnal side come out of you in a long time? Well...I'm disappointed by it...and this has been what I have been thinking about guy-wise the past week.

So I decided, stop whining over it and let's relive some crazy moments....
Here, just for you, is a list of crazy spontaneous places I have done the nasty and what fantasies of mine have still not been fulfilled...enjoy!:

1. A park bench right next to a walking trail in the middle of the day
2. Behind a bird watching trail leaning on a dead tree stump for support....that day I'm sure people heard more than just the birds squeal ;)
3. An unfinished house...cement and all...omg and it was at my ex's family outing. Apparently we made quite a ruckus, because his family definitely hinted about hearing things all day long.
4. The ocean, but that's not the bad part. It was a busy beach, during spring break, with people only a few yards away from us!
5. Hot tub (who hasn't done this!) at a hotel and another at a summer home owned by my ex's parents
6. A personal outdoor shower, again at the summer home....it was kind of thrilling, hanging on to the white fence next to me, trying to keep from doubling over in pleasure and kind of risky, thinking the neighbor's next door might see us.
7. Pool in a hotel (again...probably not that unique and not exactly the best sex)
8. Water bed .... I just had to throw this in here, because I loved how it moved under us lol
9. Car (yea yea...the high school memories)
10. Truck (again not so impressive....although the cab was small and I  made it work)
11. Boat...oh those cushions on the front sure got a work out
12. A field on a blanket
13. Regular shower....who hasn't, right?
14. The beach, at night (with a few different guys), but the time I remember the most was after I had just released hatchling turtles with one of my ex's. We decided to stay a little bit longer
15. Balcony

Now, I tried to come up with a list of places that I'd still like to try to defile and here's what I came up with:
1. Elevator...but not just any elevator. I think it would be kind of fun to do it in one with glass windows
2. A trampoline...as lame as it sounds, I'd just like to know what if feels like to be bounced up and down as I'm moving up and down!
3. Under a waterfall...ever since I thought my first dirty thought, had my first sexual daydream, I've had this fantasy of having a guy find me skinny dipping by myself in the moonlight and joining me. Eventually all that leading to sex in the water, under the waterfall, followed by sex on the shore near the waterfall on a blanket.
4. On a lifeguard stand...when I was in high school, I used to be obsessed with this one guy who was a lifeguard and who I really wanted to (at the time) lose my virginity to....he always mentioned how he'd thought of several different positions using the lifeguard stand/on it...and I've been intrigued ever since.
5. Dressing room. This may be a cliche idea, but I'd love to see if I could get away with it
6. In a bridesmaid dress. Too bad the last two weddings I've been in, that wasn't really possible. Sara's wedding I wasn't really dating anyone and I'm not a fan of one-night-stands, so that was a no go. And the second wedding I've been in, Becca's, my ex boyfriend and I shared a room with my two best friends from home, so that wasn't happening, plus I was way too tired by the time the night was done.
7. When I get married....I'd love to defile my wedding dress...maybe even before the reception is over!! ;)))

What about you all? Can anyone add to my list?

I can't wait til I meet a guy that makes it possible to check all those places off my list! Rawr!

Until Next Time,
Reaching for Reefs